到底什么是情人？也許有人會(huì)說找情人，太簡(jiǎn)單了！其實(shí)你并不知道什么才算是真正的情人。情人并非是許多人想象的那樣，互相有點(diǎn)好感上過床就是情人了。

其實(shí)情人是個(gè)很美的字眼，它清麗，婉約，淡雅，綿遠(yuǎn)悠長(zhǎng)。它是行走在朋友，紅顏知己，愛人邊緣的一種情。它比愛人多了一份浪漫，它比朋友多了一份知心，更比紅顏知己多了一份身體上的接觸！

真正的情人絕不會(huì)擾亂彼此家庭的生活，更不會(huì)半路移情別戀，而是只為一句誓言就足夠等候一生，專一直至。

那么情人到底是什么？從來沒有具體的答案，也從來沒有統(tǒng)一的形象和模式。情人是一種感覺，一份思念，一個(gè)牽掛，一個(gè)希望對(duì)方快樂！

What exactly is a lover? Maybe someone will say it's too easy to find a lover! In fact, you don't know what a true lover is. Lovers are not what many people imagine. Having a good relationship with each other is a lover.

In fact, lover is a very beautiful word. It is beautiful, graceful, elegant and long. It is a feeling of walking on the edge of friends, confidants and lovers. It is more romantic than a lover, more intimate than a friend, and more physical contact than a confidant!

Real lovers will never disturb each other's family life, nor will they change their hearts halfway. Instead, they will wait for a lifetime just for one oath.

So what is a lover? There has never been a specific answer, nor has there ever been a unified image and model. Lover is a feeling, a yearning, a concern, and a hope that each other happy!

情人是白天的守候，黑夜的等待，生活中的甜蜜，能讓人陶醉！情人的感覺是什么？沒有人能說的清道的明......

是酸——酸得讓人無奈；

是甜——甜得讓人回味；

是苦——苦得讓人流淚；

是愛——愛得讓人沉醉；

于是有了情人就有了牽掛 有了惦記，有了思念 有了激情，有了夢(mèng)想.......

什么時(shí)候你對(duì)你愛人之外的一個(gè)異性，有了絲絲的情， 悠悠的愛， 無聲的念， 幾天不見就思念，見到自己愛人也懶得言語，那么或許他就是你的情人！

有時(shí)候他會(huì)讓你不經(jīng)意就想起他，你自己也許都不敢相信！當(dāng)你與親人在一起漫談時(shí)你會(huì)想起，當(dāng)你與愛人散步時(shí)你會(huì)想起……

Lovers are waiting in the day, waiting in the night, and the sweetness in life can make people intoxicated! What does a lover feel? No one can say how clear the road is

It's sour - it's so sour that people feel helpless;

Is sweet - sweet aftertaste;

Is bitter - bitter to tears;

It is love - love makes people intoxicated;

So when you have a lover, you will have a concern, a yearning, a passion, a dream

When you have a little love for someone other than your lover, a long love, a silent thought, and miss when you don't see him for a few days, and don't bother to speak when you see your lover, then maybe he is your lover!

Sometimes he will remind you of him carelessly, and you may not believe it! When you chat with your relatives, you will think of……

當(dāng)你難以入睡時(shí)你會(huì)想起，當(dāng)你夢(mèng)醒時(shí)你會(huì)想起，當(dāng)你工作在電話邊你更會(huì)想起！他總是在你的腦海里在你的思緒里在你的記憶深處與你的靈魂融為一體，難以忘懷。

情人是一種心靈的感應(yīng)，是一種情感的呼喚，是一種期待，是一種想念，是一種安慰，是一種精神籌碼。情人不需要刻骨銘心的誓言，不需要?？菔癄€的承諾，需要絲絲縷縷的牽掛，需要纏纏綿綿的思念，需要點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴的去呵護(hù)，需要時(shí)時(shí)刻刻去關(guān)懷。“紅藕香殘玉簟秋，輕解羅裳，獨(dú)上蘭舟。云中誰寄錦書來？雁字回時(shí)，月滿西樓。”

花自飄零水自流，一種相思，兩處閑愁。

相關(guān)話題：世界上有一種痛，也叫做情人！

最近情人話題說了很多，從前我覺得情人就是小三，是破壞家庭的。但是最近接到了很多傾訴之后我才理解原來很多人都誤解了情人。

When you are hard to sleep, you will remember, when you wake up, when you work beside the phone, you will remember! He is always in your mind, in your thoughts, in your memory, and your soul, unforgettable.

The lover is a kind of spiritual induction, a kind of emotional call, a kind of expectation, a kind of missing, a kind of comfort, and a kind of spiritual chip. Lovers do not need the indelible oath, the dead end commitment, the wisps of care, the lingering yearning, the bit by bit care, and the care all the time. 'The red lotus root is fragrant and the jade is standing in the autumn. You can take off your clothes and go to the orchid boat alone. Who sent the brocade book from the cloud? When the wild goose returns, the moon is full in the west tower.'

Flowers drift and water flows. One kind of acacia, two places of idle sorrow.

Related topic: There is a kind of pain in the world, also called lover!

Recently, I have talked a lot about lovers. I used to think that lovers are mistresses, and they destroy families. But after receiving a lot of talk recently, I understand that many people have misunderstood their lovers.

至少在我看來，很多人做情人是不為金錢不圖名利，只求一個(gè)情字。

情人更多的是知心，是友達(dá)以上，戀人未滿的一種狀態(tài)。在我看來，用紅顏知己來形容最為貼切。情人，比愛人多了一份浪漫，比朋友多了一份知心，朋友是相互信任，愛人是相互包容，情人是相互欣賞。

有的時(shí)候因?yàn)橐恍┪覀儫o法左右的因素，開始了一段錯(cuò)誤的感情。這個(gè)時(shí)候我們更需要有人理解，而情人的出現(xiàn)為我們打開了一扇天窗。所以 真正意義上的情人，就是知己。

這種感情，是若即若離的思念，是無人分享的竊趣，是除了妻子或丈夫以外的唯一，是錦上添花的極致。情人絕不會(huì)擾亂彼此的生活，更不會(huì)半路移情別戀，而是只為了一句誓言就足夠等候一生！

At least in my opinion, many people who are lovers do not seek money or fame, but only love.

Lovers are more confidants, who are friends or above, and are not full of lovers. In my opinion, it is most appropriate to describe it as a confidant. A lover is more romantic than a lover, and more confidant than a friend. A friend is mutual trust, a lover is mutual tolerance, and a lover is mutual appreciation.

Sometimes we start a wrong relationship because of some factors we can't control. At this time, we need someone to understand, and the appearance of lovers opens a window for us. So the true lover is a bosom friend.

This kind of feeling is a kind of vague yearning, a secret interest that no one shares, the only one except the wife or husband, and the ultimate icing on the cake. Lovers will never disturb each other's lives, nor will they change their hearts halfway, but they will wait for a lifetime just for one oath!

但可惜的是，大部分的情人都很痛苦，因?yàn)樗麄儽舜藪炷睿瑓s沒有一個(gè)結(jié)果。

他們彼此想念對(duì)方，但是卻無法相見。你知道思念的滋味嗎？那種感覺就像在油鍋上煎熬，痛苦卻只能忍耐。

情人當(dāng)然想肆無忌憚的相見，但是這樣就會(huì)破壞彼此的生活，為了自己也為了對(duì)方，只能默默忍受這份寂寞。

沒有情人是痛苦的，因?yàn)槿鄙僖粋€(gè)知己，有情人也是痛苦的，因?yàn)槎嗔艘环轄繏臁９种还肿约寒?dāng)初太過沖動(dòng)，錯(cuò)愛了一生。

一旦做了情人，是很難罷手的。因?yàn)榭v有千萬種痛苦，只要和你在一起，就是幸福的。哪怕遍體鱗傷，我仍然執(zhí)迷不悔。不是因?yàn)槲遗录拍俏遗率ツ恪?/p>

做了情人，就等于忍受痛苦?？墒且幌氲接鲆娝疑倭撕芏嗉拍?，我知道這世界上有人懂我，我度過了很多快樂的時(shí)光。這樣想想，似乎也沒有那么痛苦了。

即使沒有未來，也讓我們做一輩子的情人吧，一半痛苦一半快樂，做情人無怨無悔。

But unfortunately, most lovers are very painful because they miss each other, but there is no result.

They miss each other, but they can't see each other. Do you know the feeling of missing? That kind of feeling is like suffering on the oil pan, but the pain can only endure.

Lovers, of course, want to meet each other without fear, but this will destroy each other's lives. For themselves and for each other, they can only bear the loneliness silently.

It is painful to have no lover because of the lack of a confidant. It is also painful to have a lover because of more care. I only blame myself for being too impulsive and having wrongly loved my whole life.

Once a lover, it is hard to stop. Because even if there are thousands of kinds of pain, as long as we are with you, we will be happy. Even though I was bruised all over, I still remained unrepentant. Not because I'm afraid of loneliness, but because I'm afraid of losing you.

To be a lover is to endure pain. But when I think of meeting him, I feel less lonely. I know that some people in the world understand me, and I have had a lot of happy times. Think of it this way, it seems not so painful.

Even if there is no future, let's be lovers for a lifetime, half pain and half happiness, and have no regrets.